As an aspirant of UPSC-CSE, I usually get a lot of thoughts in my mind, because it is the nature of the preparations for this examination. It is said to be the most coveted and the toughest examination of this country! And, the situation which an aspirant face is said to be obvious because Training starts not from LBSNAA, but from the preparation itself!
This is what is from my side, but on the other side, there is a different proposition that is imbibed into the mind of people in the society whether it is through motivational videos, coachings or the fame and social media culture that has heightened the hopes with respect to getting the post at any cost where the Success ratio is almost 0.01%.
The first thing, that comes to the mind of the people, when they first heard the word UPSC, they went into some new dimensions, extraordinary expectations, and so much pressure!
They started thinking the exam to be very simple on one side, but after so many failures develops myths too that it can't be cracked! So, what's lacking behind ??
The point of contention is not about UPSC or UPSC aspirants, but we as an Individual. The most important thing is to know yourself. Think who you are, what you want, what you like, what you aspire for, what you think you should be?
This helps in generating the power of consciousness to think where is the right path ( where our morals and virtues ) help us. It is rightly said that, before knowing ourselves, we started trusting others, or the people whom we don't know about!
Then comes the Stage of Depression, Contention, Fear of Anxiety, Fatigues, Stress and so many psychological issues were the expectations for you by the society and the family touches the height, from where it is totally impossible to see your inner consciousness and our decision -making power get lost. And, for some, it becomes a matter of their nose! We even can't decide what is good for us, or what we want for us? We only start thinking about what people will say? what people will think? and so forth ...
But, the need of the hour is to focus on the core side of yourself and realize about yourself, what is good for you? What are your interests and passions, so that rather than entering into any Risk Culture, we should enter into the path of Probity and maintain our Integrity within ourselves!
Lastly, before ending my words, "Life has different perception for every people, and how we like to shape it, depends on our self-consciousness !"
My 3-method rule to be consistent -
1. Stay Yourself
2. Stay Positive
3. Stay Happy
And, Life will move on as you want, you will face every challenge of life with full faith and confidence.
It will soon become a fact that you need not to push yourself , you will automatically be pushed by yourself and your interests !
Thank you !
Tinku Khandelwal
( An aspirant )
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